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Living Without My Jeans

One of the worst items a backpacker could bring, is a pair of denim jeans.  They are heavy, bulky, they do not pack well into a backpack or dry quickly after hand washing in a sink.  Therefore, I had to say farewell to my jeans.  And not pack a single pair.

We are backpacking and plan to be on the go for a year or so.  I am choosing to participate in Blog Action Day 2008 and discuss poverty globally.  Even only a few weeks into our backpacking adventure, we have already seen glimpses of several homeless, hungry, lost individuals.  Although Rome is a beautiful historic city, their is a more painful side to all the beauty and romance, as poverty is a tragedy many Romans witness.

However, I would like to share a story from a few summers ago where I witnessed the harsh reality of poverty. I was taking classes at a university in Beijing during the summer of 2005, while big construction plans for the Olympics were still well underway.  I had just finished my last final exam (even though I was nervous I ended up getting all A’s) and planned to go for a long walk.  I walked north away from the educational district, towards the Olympic planning sites.

As I got closer, I began to see the usual construction elements, including dirt, cranes, building materials, and other large intimidating vehicles.  As I turned right onto a major road I noticed a 50×300 ft large canvas advertisement showing an image of a luxury townhouse, set up to create more high income housing in Beijing and to enhance China’s image during the Olympics.  I also noticed a small cut in the middle of the enormous canvas draped so high and so wide across an opening.

Finding myself in an adventurous mood, I decided I try to fit through the small hole and see what was occurring behind the advertisement.  As I crouched through, the air escaped my lungs and I couldn’t breath for a minute. I had never seen anything like this before.  It appeared to be a shanty town of garbage, rubble, and debris.  It was a small poor Chinese community that had grouped together and formed a type of safe haven for themselves. Only, it was barren, almost like a ghost town.  Numerous signs of the people and families that had once lived there were plainly visible, but the majority of the community had obviously evacuate as a result of the construction.  As I was walking past these abandoned shack-like homes constructed of just about everything and anything, I was in so much shock I couldn’t cry.  Then I heard a noise.  It was nearby.  Was it a wild dog, was I going to be attached by a gang of Beijing rebels, but then I saw him.  Not too far from me was a child.  A young boy.  In a box.  As I saw him I was holding my camera and did the only thing that made sense.  I took a picture.  It seemed so American, I almost hate myself for it.  But I just knew that I might be able to share it someday as a way to share the very real problem of poverty our world currently faces.

I heard someone, hopefully a parent inside, and I knew it was my time to get going.  But I think about that little boy all the time.  I wonder, where does he live now that the Olympics came in and built a stadium on his home? He would be three years older now.  Is he able to go to school?  Does he have enough food?  Safe drinkable water?  Is he still alive?  I wish I could have helped.  I wanted to do something.  It was getting late and I needed to return to my dorm for the night.  I was almost 4 miles from my University.  I feel so shameful that I did nothing.  What could I do?  I prayed.  I still pray for him and his family.

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On this Blog Action Day 2008 I will also pray for the young boy and that he may grow into an adult and help our world understand poverty and the many social issues we cannot ignore.  People are suffering and struggling all around the world.  This was just one story, from one woman.

Living without my jeans is not a big deal.  Their are so many others living with far less.  What could you live without?  If you gave up that pizza, could you donate to world vision?  If you gave up your Saturday could you volunteer at a shelter in your community?  Share ideas, things that you already do to help others, or things you plan on doing in the future to help end poverty.


The Value Of Family


During our second evening in Rome, Justin and I had the privilege to meet up with some of my relatives that live in Rome. These relatives included my cousins Sabrina and Fabricio, now much older than the first time we met. 16 years ago came to visit America, and I remember playing and swimming in the lake at my grandparents house. Even though we spoke different languages, we were able to play and simply be kids together. At a young age, I was already able to recognize that real kids just like me live in other countries all around the world and, better yet, some of them are even my cousins.

During my first year in high school (at 14 years old) I was able to meet some of my other cousins while visiting Rome. Luna (at the time 15 years old) and Jada (11) were so beautiful and fun. They took us to a tiny authentic restaurant where they personally knew the owners. They began to teach me the importance of getting off the beaten path while in another country. Don’t just eat where tourist eat. Be adventurous, go down a few unmarked streets with your Italian cousins, duck through a small wooden door and taste the amazing food on the other side. Needless to say, it felt incredible. I have hip, cool family in Italy and they are fun and adventurous.

Now, ten years later,as a grown woman, I was able to introduce my husband to Sabrina and Fabricio during our second evening in Rome. “Justin, these were the kids, well adults now, Fabricio (20) is now engaged and all, but I played with them at my grandma’s we swam together!”

Family holds value that cannot be measured with money or possessions. I am now able to recognize this on a whole new level. How do you place a value on spending a day with your grandma in the town she was born and grew up in? How does one comprehend creating the feeling only Christmas can bring by simply showing up? I cannot express how fortunate I am for having the opportunity to meet aunts, uncles and tons of relatives in Bagnoli del Trigno. It will be a day I will never forget. The best way to describe the joy that we experienced, is by the fact that my mother burst into tears of joy at 12 different times throughout the day.

Luna and Jada even went home (to Bagnoli) for the weekend to make wine with their dad (my uncle Basilio). So, I was able to once again spend time with my two awesome cousins now in their twenties. I do hope that we are able to meet up every decade or so. They are very special to me.

So now I sit, looking out a castle window gazing out into the Italian countryside, wondering why would anyone ever leave this? But if my grandma and grandpa had not been in America, I would not exist…

To be a woman traveling back to Italy with my grandparents considering the sacrifice and hardship they endured to make it in America, start a successful business, and all of their accomplishments. I know why they did it. It was for family!

The one strongest most motivating factor was the love that only family creates and offers.

I have translated what my Great Aunt Peurina said to us in Bagnoli, “I feel so rich, because I have all of my family here.”

She helped me comprehend the value of family a little more that day.

Poverty is a Reflection of Self

Those who live in poverty often lack the necessary means of making their voices heard. They lack both wealth and influence, which is a nice way of saying that they lack the financial means to gain political or popular support. They do not have powerful lobbyist or rock stars to further their cause and they often, but not always, lack the motivation to fight a system that is not inclined to lend a helping hand.

Poverty is a part of every society and every culture. How a culture chooses to engage (or not) their specific brand of poverty spotlights the values and aspirations of its citizens.

With all this in mind, Natalie and I will be partnering with Blog Action Day to help change the international conversation about poverty. Head over to blogactionday.org to see how you can get involved.

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Our first mistake

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It’s true.  We made our first backpacking mistake.  Justin and I are beginning our budget travel adventure in Rome arriving on Wednesday, October 1st.  Back in late March we sent a few emails to The Colors Hotel in Rome and made reservations for 3 nights.  We booked two beds in a room with 6 beds total.  Yes, this means that up to 4 absolute strangers will be sleeping nearby.  Not a big deal…this is part of budget travel.

Two days ago, it occurred to me that I should see if The Colors Hotel will allow Justin and I to use an “extra” locker for our little suitcase.  You see, with my brothers wedding happening in Italy, the inspiration to our kick-start, we need to bring a suit (for Justin) and a dress for me.  As one can only imagine, these items are not compatible to a backpack.  Therefore, we plan on bringing the little suitcase and my mom (Justin’s Debbers-in-law) has very kindly accepted the responsibility of taking the little suitcase back to the states for us- once the wedding festivities are completed.

Basically, The Colors Hotel emailed me and informed me that there are no lockers.  This was our first mistake.  We found an awesome place to stay.  [NOTE:  I am still excited to stay at The Colors Hotel.]  However, our mistake was that we never asked about lockers, we assumed.  Now we have no place to lock our little suitcase or our 2 backpacks filled with all of our nomad backpacking stuff.  Is it safe to leave it in the room we are sharing with 4 strangers?  Has anyone stayed at The Colors Hotel in Rome? Do you think Rome is safe?  Should we pay extra money for the private double room, at The Colors Hotel?  I love how bright and colorful it looks, but dare I ask for another accommodation recommendation?

Justin and I made our first mistake, what do you think we should do?

Three current solutions I have explored:

1.  Ship our stuff to the castle - DHL will charge us $327.46 for a 30lb package from Detroit, MI to Perugia, Italy

2.  Store it at the Rome Train Station (they got rid of lockers after 9.11 and now have a type of luggage check in)  I calculated the cost of storing our luggage (which is charged on a per hour bsis), the shuttle from the airport to the train station and a cab ride from the train station to The Colors Hotel - $101.25 total - we will leave Rome on Saturday, October 4th and take the train to Perugia for my big bro to tie the knot.  So technically, it’s not completely inconvenient.

3.  Get a private room with a double bed instead of the 6-person dorm room experience.  We would pay an additional $183 total (an extra $61 a night).

Those are the 3 solutions I could think of.  What do you think?

Will it be safe for Justin and I to just leave all our stuff in the room we are sharing with 4 complete strangers?  Maybe it will be?  It just makes me nervous because it’s so close to my brothers wedding date and we will just be beginning our travels.  I would like to avoid having anything (or everything) stolen.

We made our first mistake.  Now what?

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“And the winner is….DAILY WEAR LENSES!”

This is a response to the How We Will See the World post

After much debate and consideration, Justin and I have decided to go with Focus Dailies (one-day contact lenses). Here's lookin at you kid

There is great appeal to the ease and flexibility of daily wear contact lenses.  We enjoyed being able to pop them in without solution.  While wearing them I could see very well, my night vision especially improved.  And then ending the day was a breeze; pop them out anywhere no need for a case or solution.  Just throw them away!

The only problem we experienced was dryness.  Which can easily be combated by bringing eye drops.  Contact Lenses

Overall, we are glad that we attempted to trial daily wear lenses. Otherwise, we would always wonder if they could have made our trip easier.  We hope they will prove to be the right choice.

Are you backpacking?  Are you not?  Do you wear glasses?  Contact lenses?  Nothing?  Sunglasses?   8-) How do you see the world?

How Will We See the World?

Contacts?Seeing the places we go and the people we meet is rather important. Justin and I both have vision problems and we have used contacts and glasses for many years to bring the world into focus (read: see well enough not to crash a car while driving).

At this point, we both like our glasses. However, we also love the freedom that wearing contacts offers.

About a month ago I began to research “daily wear” contact lenses. Is this how we want to see the world?

The Pros and Cons of Daily Wear Contacts

Pros

- no need to bring solution with us

- avoiding the “search for solution” to buy as we run out

- Quick and easy

- Avoiding potential eye infections (due to varied water, bacteria, etc)

- No need to bring cases (we can’t loose our contact case)

Cons

- the expense

- the number of contacts to pack (one set for each day)

- they dry up quicker (because they are a thinner lens)

Another one of our main reasons for trying to go with a “daily wear” lens is that we don’t usually wear contacts everyday. However, wearing contacts each day while we travel may in fact be the most comfortable option.

For example: On a plane, train, boat, whatever, I like to read and don’t wear my contacts. The next day, experiencing jet lag will make my eyes tired and I will probably go without contacts. Then I might want them for an activity in which I will be hot, and not want to have sweat and oil collect on my glasses (that’s gross). If I The joys of glassesopen a 1-2 week pair but only wear them 3 of the 14 days that they are usable, it just seems wasteful.

Overall, it’s nice to have a choice. Although, I am still not sure if we will go with the “daily wear” lenses or if we will buy 1-2 week lenses for backpacking.

I have a biased view, due to the fact that while trialing a sample pair of lenses yesterday, I was able to see better than I have in a while. My night vision was incredible!

What do you think? Should we go with the ease, comfort and flexibility that “daily wear” lenses offer? Or should we bring 1-2 week contacts like we have always used?

Laxatives, Tape, and Bengay, oh my!!!


Two nights ago, Justin and I had the privilege of beginning to gather various odds and ends that will be traveling with us in our backpacks. These are items that we have been advised may be helpful during our backpacking journey.

These items tend to fit into 4 categories:

Things that: - we already use

- may not be available in another country

- are great to “MacGyver” our way out of a tight spot

- we have never heard of before but other backpackers have recommended it

So, here we are buying items, some of these we have never purchased or used before. However, if it was a lifesaver for a certain backpacker, who says it was the best thing they brought, what do we have to lose? If we discover we don’t need something, and we don’t feel like carrying it anymore, we can always throw it out or give it away to someone we meet. Who knows what people we may meet? They might really need some duct tape.

This is a picture of some of these items, but not all of the things that will be in our backpacks.

Odd and Ends

What do you think? Is their any items in the picture above that you would leave behind? Why? What is something, you think we should remember to bring, that is not on our packing list?

Let us know what you think. With a lack of experience in the laxative department, perhaps we purchased the wrong brand. Maybe you have advice for us? :-)

Or perhaps you are an athlete, and you know a product that works better than Bengay? Has anyone ever used something called Tiger Balm…we have heard about this…

Over the next few months until we leave, I would like to focus on: W.W.Y.B.

What Would You Bring?

Joy and Telegraph

This will not be a post about long-distance transmission of messages ;-) (telegraphy) or about jubilant emotion :-D (joy). For those of you unfamiliar with Detroit, Michigan, these are popular roads just west of the city.

Map of Joy and Telegraph

The intersection of Telegraph and Joy houses a cross-cultural Mecca of the Detroit area. That’s right! I am able to travel from New Delhi, India to Ho Chi Mihn, Vietnam within minutes.  It’s quite the incredible experience.

I can shop at:

- Suraj (Indian Groceries & DVD’s of course)

- Asian Mart (family is from Vietnam)

- Joy View Meat Market (being vegetarians perogies are all I can eat here)

- Pipe-N-Hot Pizza (authentic Italian pizza by the slice)

- Anna’s Fresh Seafood (even for a vegetarian, it’s worth the peak at octopus, cuttlefish, squid and other fish imported from Asia)

- Baiz Bakery (the couple is from Lebanon - great vegetarian selection!)

- Joe Randazzo’s Fresh Produce Market (feels like Mexico)

Some of these locations, “Randazzo’s for example feels a lot less like shopping in the U.S. with about 95% of the employees speaking Spanish.

It is important to recognize that America is not the only way of life. Or the best. Every country around the world offers a variety of culture and life to experience.

Some days I will enter one of these stores and find myself immersed in a new culture, as though I am in that country. The various foods, beverages, and other products that I have never seen, tasted or used before, over whelm me. Then the language barrier is in place as I have attempted to ask questions, sometimes walking away even more confused than when I began.

Real life example:
Setting: Natalie is holding small un-boiled tapioca balls, which she picked up near the tea at the Asian market. Now she recalls Bubble Milk Tea that she has drank both at Campus Kitchen in Kalamazoo, MI as well as in China. Yum! Amazingly delicious!

Let’s ask and find out if I can boil the tapioca balls and put it in with my tea!

[For my example, "the woman" refers to the kind Vietnamese woman that might be the store owner.]

Natalie: “Excuse me. Is this for tea?”
The Woman: “Oh, is good.”
Natalie: “Good for tea?” (Now gesturing to box of tea in other hand)
The Woman: “No, not tea. Tea. Okay?”
Natalie: “So this is not for tea?”
The Woman: “No really, it’s good. Try it!”

Natalie: “In my tea?”
The Woman: “Yes, it’s good. Try it!”
Natalie: “Boil this.”
The Woman: “Yes.”
Natalie: “Together!” (now gesturing the tapioca balls becoming larger and putting them into the tea)
The Woman: “No! It’s good. Really! Try it!”

At this point I think I kindly thanked her. Then pondered going online to research other products in the future. So, I ended up buying jasmine tea and dung beans. That’s right, not to be confused with the dung Beetle. Dung beans have a higher amount of protein than I have ever seen in my life. It’s truly incredible. There are 48 grams of protein in one cup of cooked dung beans. However, this could be a language translation error made in Asia, while trying to accommodate to Americans that wish to know the nutritious value of their dung beans before consuming them. Needless-to-say, the dung beans have proved to be a great source of protein to vegetarians. Justin and I could really feel the protein, if you know what I mean.

Overall, I walked out the door of the Asian Market and within a few moments I was back in our 4Runner cruising down Telegraph. While Justin and I backpack and are living in various countries I will not have this luxury to escape any culture instantaneously by walking out the store door to hop into my personal vehicle and see familiar American street signs and traffic patterns.

Although, I absolutely love the feeling of entering a new country through the stores at Telegraph and Joy, I wonder if it will prove to be unhelpful.

Am I currently teaching my mind and body that I can escape any culture as quickly as I find the exit and dash through it with the “ding, dong” of the awareness bell? Perhaps I am training my self like one of Pavlov’s dogs in all of the wrong ways.

What do you think?

Nomad Barista


Wow! I am so excited about this blog and how helpful this website could be for others. Even this past Friday  morning, I met a fellow barista (I currently work at Starbucks, Winter Park, FL), named Sara White. I met her for the first time that morning. She just returned about a week ago from a 3 month backpack adventure in Europe. I mentioned that Justin and I were planning on making a website in attempts to be helpful to first time backpackers. She was thrilled at the idea and told me it would be a very helpful resource.

A good site to start out with is Guiding Stars.

Overall, thanks Sara! You are an encouragement to us, as we want to backpack, explore and go on an adventure just as you recently have.

Enjoy being a “freelance” barista for a while. Sara explained that she is picking up shifts at various Starbucks locations in the area for the next 2 weeks until she is officially on the schedule of a nearby store. Enjoy being a “Nomad Barista”!